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so, I'm home, just came back after the chinese lesson thingy.
and to discuss about marcus tan wei wen's point.

He said for me to side my dad cause my mum took away my money.
but to be truthful, i sided my mum.

For people who has a family where the parents doesn't quarrel. You should feel happy. Don't feel angry or all mad when one of ur siblings start quarelling wif ur parents. when parents quarrel , IT IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. Don't take it for granted that every day u go home, your parents will ask you to eat dinner, and a hot plate of rice and meat will be waiting for you on the table. and your family waiting at the table. I used to take it for granted, and even ignored my parents when they asked me to go home for dinner as i rather eat wif my friends. Now, I'm dying for my family to have dinner together without my parents shouting at each other.

when parents go into a quarrel, your heart will feel a sense of dread. That at night, when your dad comes home and meet your mum, what will happen. Will they start quarrelling and shouting again?

Then, you start viewing your parents in a different light. They are no longer, "PARENTS" they now become "FATHER" and "MOTHER". When this happens, you will truly know who you actually love. When they quarrel, your heart will ignore all logic and go out to either ur father or ur mother. You can never ever say how much you love ur mother or father unless they had a big fight or quarrel. It is then that you know who you really love. If you love ur mother more, even if she is the one that is in the wrong, you will still side her and feel hatred for your dad. That's what I'm feeling now. So, marcus, even though my mum is in the wrong, I actually side her more than my dad. I even wish that my dad will get out of our life even though he wasn't in the wrong.

I know this doesn't make any sense at all. and be happy that it doesn't. Cause that means you have a loving family that is waiting for you every night to eat dinner and laugh and joke as a family.

I, as a typical teenager who often laughed at family councilors when they talk about family love, is actually typing out this post. yeah, and i actually feel happy for all of you out there who have a perfect family. So, my last word, do not take it for granted that your parents don't quarrel. Go up to them and say how much you love them. Don't be like me, like now, when all this has happened, I can't even say how much I want them to be back together and stop shouting at each other cause they'll just shout at me to get lost.